The 10 Best Ways to Break the Ice

Have you ever faced some weird situation that you are stuck with a person and you are confused that what should I talk to him, how to start a conversation? or you want to date a girl but confused that how to start a conversation with her. This is faced by every person present in this world. When they meet someone stranger and that stranger can be a girl too. Proples always gets confused by thinking that what should they talk to them. What is the best way to break the ice?
So no need to worry because we at corners360 have decided to tell you some great tips on how to break the ice and start a new conversation with strangers. By this method, you will be easily able to know how to start talking to a girl.

1. Show your interest in the person you’re talking to:

Show your interest in the person you’re talking to
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This is the very important step to break the ice because people just love to talk about themselves what they do and all things that they have done in their life. So to break the ice, let them talk. Let them tell about themselves as much as they can. You have to do only thing is that you have to show interest in the person you’re talking to. Because a perfect and healthy conversation can only continue if you are taking interest in their conservation and listening to it very carefully.

2. Let the other person explain things you don’t know:

Let the other person explain things you don’t know
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There is some situation arises that you don’t know certain things that you are a partner is talking about. But that can also be the best way to break the ice. Let them explain things that you don’t know about because it will help the conversation to go further, and you need to do is that you need to pay attention to them and have an interest in their conversation that what they are telling.

3. Share your experience:

Share your experience
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One of the important thing in a healthy conversation is that If the other person mentions something familiar to you or you’ve also gone through the same situation, So don’t hesitate to share your experience. Because this will make you feel confident in that conversation and this will also bring you closer, which results in making a healthy conversation.

4. Use the F.O.R.D. technique:

Use the F.O.R.D. technique
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These are very important letters for you if you want to break the ice. You should always Remember these letters. Because these small talk will you handy and you start taking interest in this conversation.
Family: When you meet someone stranger. After talking to him you can these question to him if you want a conversation to go on. Always try to talk about their family like How many children do you have? Have you been living here for a long time? What do you like most about this city? This will give the basic idea of him that who he is and his background?
Occupation: Ask their occupation as it good to know about the person that what he is doing? What do you do for a living? What are you currently working on? What is the most difficult part of your profession?
Recreation: always ask this question because this will be great to continue the conversation as What do you do in your free time? As if some of your interest matches with them. Then it would be great fun to break the ice. Where can I get the fabric you used to create this? How long have you been playing tennis?
Dreams: Talk about their dream ask them that what is your biggest dream? As this will help you to gain knowledge about him.

5. Be honest:

Be honest
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Don’t like them or don’t pretend to be the supreme power in front of them because that’s not a good sign of healthy conversation. One of the most important thing in healthy conversation is that always be honest with them. If you like having long pleasant conversations, just say so. Some personal questions are okay too, for example, “What are you afraid of?“ or ”What do you like most about your life?”

6. Learn from the best:

Learn from the best
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You all know that experience comes from learning and this works best in this field. If you want to break the ice and start a conversation then it’s very important for you to learn before you do it. You can Watch famous conversationalists on the TV, or follow their channels on the Internet. You’ll learn how to ask questions, which questions to ask, how to use pauses, and which jokes are appropriate. And this learning will make you best in this field.

7. Feed their self-esteem:

Feed their self-esteem
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Self-esteem is an important component in healthy conversation as if you don’t have confidence then it might be waste for you to break the ice, as confidence is the one thing inside you that grows interests in conversation if you think that your partner lacks their self-confidence always give a compliment and a smile because this can go a long way. Compliments will immediately draw people’s attention and interest. But it always important to be honest in a healthy conversation, and one important thing to do is that don’t exaggerate! Your partner.

8. Practice makes perfect:

Practice makes perfect
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Always practice this because learning will not be able to come in effect if you don’t practice of what you are learning. You all know Practice makes man perfect. So always practice this, Whether it’s a person sitting next to you on the subway or the cleaning lady in your office, talk to them. Only practice will make you an expert conversationalist.

9. Remember the R.A.P.E. rule:

Remember the R.A.P.E. rule
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Never talk about religion, abortion, politics, or economics. It’s one of the main steps in conversation that you need to follow because if you talked about anyone topics from this then this might create an uncomfortable situation for both of you so it’s important to avoid this and always be on safe side.
Some people believe that “E“ stands for exes. Yes, exes are also a reason for conversation stoppers.

10. You aren’t alone:

You aren’t alone
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Always remember that you are not the one in this world who face this problem. This problem is faced by everyone in this world and everyone is not perfect in this. You are not the only one who feels strange or shy in a situation where no one knows each other. They always learn from this and what you have to do this learn it how to break ice perfectly.
So be the first to break the ice. This all method is necessary if you want to break the ice with a girl. It’s worth it!
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